“Oh, I just don’t have time to go out and meet people!” says the woman on the TV.
“I’m so busy with work that I can’t go out and date,” she continues on.
“So XxYy has made it so much easier for me to find someone!” she exclaims as the commercial shows her on what we can only assume is the absolute best date of her life having found her soul mate.
We’ve heard it all before on these commercials and the companies putting it out love to tout these sayings over and over again. Don’t know how to go out and meet someone? Go online! Don’t know where to meet someone? Meet them online! Don’t have time to date? Oops…here’s where it all falls apart using logic.
If you don’t have time to go out and meet people or have time to date, then an online dating website isn’t going to help you! You see, regardless of how or when you meet someone, if you want keep dating them, you have to actually make time to go out and actually date! Going onto any of these online dating sights isn’t going to change your schedule. It’s not like signing up to participate with the online service is going to suddenly make it so you have an extra few hours a week to go out. News flash: The time you’re spending online looking through profiles and responding is time you could be setting aside to actually date.
Don’t try pulling the bullshit about having time to check/reply at work. It just further proves you don’t need to be dating right now. If you can’t be bothered to find extra time during the evening or on the weekends, then you just need to figure you aren’t going to be dating. Things are going to keep being the same for you regardless of how you are meeting people.
Are people upset at you because you’re “too busy all the time” and aren’t going out or spending time with them? Meeting someone on an online dating sight isn’t going to change that! Sure you may be able to put someone off for a while under the guise of wanting to “get to know them a while” before dating them, but at some point you have to actually go out on a date. Once you go on that date, if it was enjoyable, you need to then find time in order to spend with the other person. If your schedule is so packed you can’t do that, then even meeting online is meaningless.
Relationships take time and commitment. If you don’t have the time, you aren’t going to get the commitment resulting in no relationship. Stop fooling yourself. If you think some guy or some girl is going to put up with your “I don’t have time right now” in the very beginning of the process, you’re a bigger dumb ass than even you think of yourself. I already know you’re a huge dumb ass. Oh, come on now…don’t get offended. Self realization isn’t something everyone can achieve. You need people like me to give you that push forward to enlightenment.